It’s important to choose your words carefully when speaking to a cancer
patient. Though you probably mean well, it’s all too easy to
accidentally insult someone.
According to Barbara L. Andersen, PhD, a researcher and professor of
psychology, two of the best things to say are easy: “I’m sorry you’re
ill” and “I’m thinking of you.” In fact, sometimes gestures speak louder
than words. For instance, sending flowers or watching TV with your
friend can offer comfort.
Every cancer patient has a different opinion
and experience, of course, and many know that you do mean well. But to
avoid putting your foot in your mouth, don’t utter these next
10 Phrases you should never use for a cancer patient.
